Hopping off The Facebook Grid … for now, anyway

I hopped off the facebook grid today at around 5:30pm (Eastern).  The overarching reason is that facebook’s 80/20 rule is tilted in favor of crap I don’t care/ want to see being the 80%. That’s bad. Some specifics:

Politics
Stating your political beliefs is your choice, but it’s usually boring, uninformed, and so terse as to be impenetrable.

Work
Many people I’ve ‘friended’ are through work. They end up stating their political viewpoint, and (see also: Chick-fil-A) an argument ensues. You’re wrong. You’re right. In the end, it turns out that Our Context doesn’t include giving a rat’s ass about your politics, and suddenly the work relationship is fouled, or at least altered.

Relationships
All relationships have boundaries. Not so on facebook. You can argue with me and say, “well, you friended too many people,” or “you can organize your friends, blah blah blah” but when I go to work, I’m around my work friends, and at home I’m with my home friends. Some intersect. Some don’t. On facebook it’s all one big blur.

All Selling, All the Time
Selling yourself. Your work. Products. Games. Facebook is the modern junk mail.

What’s it For?
I have a blog. So I can write there. A little blog is lost among the bajillions of web sites out there, but so is any photo I have of my family’s vacation amidst the political grandstanding and organic chickens on facebook.

What’s Next
I’m still on Google+, which means I am still fairly anonymous. But the photography experience is far superior to facebook’s. The interface is a bit wobbly. It really should be a lot easier to post a message to my niece. Never make me undo things to do something, which Google+ is currently forcing me to do by defaulting where I want my message post seen.

Google+ iOS App vs. Facebook
Hard to believe I’m saying this, but Google+ iOS App is far more beautiful than facebook’s and – here’s the real rub – a lot faster. Why am I sitting here for minutes on end waiting for … all the stuff I mentioned above that I don’t really want to see?

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